Vision: I saw a vision of words and they said “The Two Shall Become One” and then I see at the end Proverbs.
Ephesians 5:31 “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.”
Mark 10:6-9 …6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. 7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; 8 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. 9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
What does it mean to become one? I want to show you what God taught me about marriage with him and his choice for our marriage partner. We literally become one in spirit and flesh God’s way, so Jesus can help us or guide us with his spirit. You will both love each other like Christ loves, so there’s not much room for selfishness, power struggle or cruelty. My first marriage was the proverb warnings for marriage. It was not just about a man avoiding a bad woman or the adulterer, it was also for women too. God knew some men tend to fall for the adulterous woman’s ways more, or the wrong choice, but this certainly does not exclude women of God who can make a wrong choice too and do the same. I fell for the wrong choice or a man that did not know or care to follow Jesus, bc I did not include God and therefore I became the proverbs type of wife as a result. I was not a bad person in my heart, but it became extremely difficult to please him and therefore I resorted to trying to do things myself or being rebellious even towards the end. Everything else I tried to do God’s way, would never work with a man not equally yoked or not seeking to grow spiritually also. We were on separate paths with separate goals. When we choose, love ends, lust ends, and you realize God was never in it or gave his approval.
If God puts two people together, he can work on both imperfect people to make a beautiful marriage the way he intended. Nothing is ever perfect, but God can make it happy and beautiful more when two people surrender to him and his way for marriage. I desired to be in a marriage for God my whole life, but I failed by trying to do it myself first. Now, the lord is giving me a second chance to show me how it will be when he is involved. I am so very thankful for that and all he has taught me to prepare me. I know it will never be perfect, but I do know it will push me towards God more, then take me away from him as my first marriage did. God’s choice is truly the “Best” choice for you and that is why it will succeed, but let him finish working on you before that happens. He prepares those he puts together. It won’t be unequally yoked, so you will both be similar in your heart and spirit. The man will be the leader as Christ leads with love, kindness, faithfulness, gentleness etc…he will also show fruits. His heart and intentions will be good for his wife, and not just himself. This is the part some miss and they take it as a power struggle. A man will lead you to Christ and how does he do that? With love and kindness and gentleness. Not control or power or selfishness…These are nothing like Christ and not considerate of the wife or honoring her as a crown or his own body. It is not loving, but one sided. It is not like Christ with patience and love…teaching us to be better with understanding. Men should make their wives spotless, so that means teach and guide them to be better by example as Jesus does. This type of man a woman can easily respect and let lead her. This is why the marriage will work with these types of men as leaders. They lead by example and they have Jesus helping them.
Vision: I saw a vision of a man in black dress pants, white collared shirt and tie. His hair was black slicked back and he was sitting in a chair like he was waiting for an interview or something. He looked a bit mexican/american. He was leaning against the wall.
Vision: I saw words that said “Your Going To Be Ok”
Vision: I saw words that said “Mesk is no longer around”….Not sure who this message is for or the meaning.
Heard: I heard a man say ” I always give up”
Vision: I saw two white cops helping a dark skinned boy across the street. There was a fence across the street and they were in the road. The boy looked about elementary 4th or 5th grade age. The two cops had navy uniforms on with white letters on back…I only remember seeing the words cop on their backs.
Vision: I saw a man with black sunglasses on who had a small black beard kiss his daughter to go to elementary school. He was tan and hair shaved on all sides and back of his head. They were inside their home about to leave.
Vision: I saw a beautiful night scene with moonlight sky
Dream: I was dreaming of my dog and a guy in the park. I let him take her leash for a bit and she somehow got away, but she came back to me. I was so happy to see her. At one point, she also protected me from another very big black dog. He came at me, but she went over and barked and scared it.
Dream: Dreaming of some kind of promised land with crystal blue water all around and people camping. The world was in chaos and people were coming to this location for safety. I remember it had beautiful blue water.